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TELL ME, HOW? PART 3.

If you haven't read Part1 and 2 yet, please do before reading this. Don't be afraid to fail. If you do, then look back, visualize it all over again. Where did you go wrong? Look for your mistakes, ask questions from the right people. Ignore the pain of failing, you'd be a bigger failure if you fail and stay right down. Remember,  failure doesn't feel good. So get up, analyze your mistakes, work on them and go back again. I'm being  persistent till I succeed, are you?

TELL ME, HOW? PART 2.

If you haven't read Part 1 yet, please do before reading this. You just have to. You just have to trust that you can achieve it. You know why? If you don't,  you'd keep failing.  And one thing is sure, failure doesn't feel good. So strive, ignore the gossip, ignore the doubt, ignore those voices in your head telling you you can't do it. You can. Pause and reflect... Think back on how great your music is, or how beautiful that makeover looks, or how delicious that food tastes... Remember how good you are at what you do, at what you did, and now imagine how great you'd be doing much more. You are capable. Think of the goal. Write it down. Think of how amazing you'd feel and even look after achieving it, and use that to push yourself.  It is achievable. Very possible.  But you've got to work for it, put in the effort needed till the very end... Don't stop halfway dear . YOU ARE GREAT.

TELL ME, HOW? PART 1.

Ever started something, saw positive results ahead but got negative feedback instead?  Ever thought you could get to the top of the mountain but 10 feet through you found yourself tumbling back down? Ever analyzed the situation, persistently believed it was achievable but yet you failed? I can relate. I know how it feels to fail. Or just to start up a task and give up on it, then go to another only to stop without completing it again. Sometimes we have great visions, great plans and ideas but implementing them becomes so difficult. How do you believe in yourself when you don't know how to? How do you keep your self esteem intact without falling into a state of unnecessary self awareness or depression? How do you face these obstacles and keep pressing forward? They say a journey of a thousand miles starts with one step. They say start small bla bla bla... But how do I succeed without falling?

MOOD.

I'm the feeling you get. I determine how you react. You can control me, But do you? Lots of you say "I was in a bad mood", but it's not an excuse. Not justifiable. You're not allowed to use me as an escape from the effect of your actions. Face your issues, Self control is pertinent. Stop blaming me, please.